3 years & 8 months old

Mummy finally join Kids e-world's 1 year membership over the weekend after thinking about it for 2 weeks which cost RM800 so you can go every weekend after Heguru & lunch. I feel that you need the exercise to strengthen your hands & legs. Moreover, climbing & crawling are good for brain stimulation too. Most importantly, you love it. There you get a chance to improve your social skill & I get a chance to see how you interact with other children. The one in Garden's Midvalley is much cleaner than the one in Ikano Power Centre.

Lately, you've grown so tall & since you've stopped vital years & started going to Kindergarden, your spoken English has changed to Manglish (Malaysian English).

Daddy attended parents-teacher day at your new school. Teacher's commented that you're very frightened & cried when you've accidentally done something wrong like spill the milk or water. You're very outspoken. There was once a girl sat beside you who complained about you so frequently that you couldn't bear with it & you requested teacher to change your seat to another place. Hahaha.

You can read some of Oxford Reading Tree level 2 books. You've achieved the same reading ability as jie jie when she was your age. You like maze & quite good at it.

I like spending Saturdays with you, accompanying your at Heguru & spending play time with you. You're so precious.

Oh, I almost forgotten about this. I bought you a football table last week after surveying around for couple of months. Finally I bought one from Toy'R us which is about right for your height. The quality isn't very good but it seems like that's all in the market now. You play with it almost everyday ever since we bought. So, I consider it a good buy. Even jie jie and daddy loves it.

I love you, jie jie & daddy so much....

You've been spending more playing time with daddy everyday now & I actually encourage that a lot so you can learn from daddy how to be a great man. Daddy enjoys playing with you too. There was 1 day you cried

3 years 5 months old - Pee by yourself

Recently, you have acquired the skill to go to the toilet by yourself to stand & pee.

It was one evening, I was in the toilet with jie jie. I was checking her teeth after she brushed them. Suddenly, you walked in while pulling your pants down. I was wondering what were you doing. Jie Jie and I watched as you walked towards the toilet bowl. Then you held your birdie with the tip of your thumb and index finger & tip-toed so you could aim well. Birdie is just about 1 cm above the toilet bowl. Yes, you are tall enough now. You aimed well too. Hahaha! I was so happy of your new acquired skill. Later after both of you were asleep, I quickly ran downstairs to ask kakak if she knows that you can go toilet by yourself now. She said she taught you that because most of the 2.5 years old boys at Phoenix are going to the toilet on their own already.

3 years & 5 months

Every Saturday we go to Heguru. The journey is about 30 minutes. In the car, while I'm driving, you are often in your imaginary world. Once, I heard you pretending to be Spiderman & you were talking to other people who asked for your help.

You ask lots of questions. You asked why the food we eat will turn into poo poo, why the poo poo must come out from our body, why the poo poo is brown colour. For questions which I don't have the answer, I'll have to use Google to find out.

Some nights you want to asked me to show you the picture of porcupine before you go to sleep. You said they're very cute. You love animals and babies. You want to have another brother too.

Some nights you have to hug my leg to sleep. Most nights you wanted stories.

Sin Yee ah yee finally wins your heart. Now she is your best friend. You love seeing her.

When you smile, you melt everyone's heart. Mine, the most. I love you so much my boy.

I bought you a cool blue Polo shoes last weekend from Isetan Gardens. You liked it so much that you're willing to wear it for few dinner and outings already.

Every morning when you wake up, except Saturday, you will cry & ask me not to go to work. When I pick you from condo, you'll resist to go home. Hmmm....

Yeh Yeh & everybody loves you.

3 years 3 months old

There were few funny conversation you had with the maids:

  You went into kakak Con's room and saw all the bags on the floor & said "Kakak Con is going back already, I've no more kakak to cook for me already". You then said to kakak D that she cannot go back because you will have no more kakak. Kakak D said "I'm very tired and I want to go back". Then you said "I'm good boy, I'm not naughty. I won't say go away kakak".


There was 1 day when you didn't want egg for breakfast: Daddy: JK, there's egg for breakfast JK: Last time I eat egg & I vomited Daddy: Last time you were coughing JK: I still have cough, "cough cough...cough cough..." you see.


Every morning when you wake up, you call out loud for mummy. Every evening, mummy picks you up from condo. Most of the time, you sit infront with mummy & you ask lots of questions. Sometimes you make up songs. How everyone feels about you? Whenever we talk about you, we smile because you're very funny. You sulk easily, you're soft hearted, you always put your toys back & you're very cheeky.

3 years old & 1 month

We celebrated your 3 years old birthday at home. Mummy bought an American chocolate cake and put a transformer on top. You opened your mouth wide when you saw it. We invited aunty Giok Mui and aunty Poh Leng too besides Sue Yin and Sue Lynn. Everyone bought you presents. You loved the cake. I usually talk to you after jie jie has fallen asleep every night. Last night, we had this conversation.. Mummy: How is Vital Years? JK: Ask me about Bao Bei Mummy: How's Bao Bei? JK: Hao Hao bully me. Mummy: How did Hao Hao bully you? JK: He beat me like this (while beating his own chest) Mummy: Then what happened? JK: Jie jie pulled him away Mummy: Oh, so jie jie saved you? JK: Yes. Mummy: Did you tell teacher? JK: Yes. Teacher beat Hao Hao's back. I like the part where you ask me to ask about Bao Bei. Last month we went to Bangkok & stayed few days at the hotel with da gu. After that, we stayed at Min Chee ah yi's house for few more days. There you played with Max & Carmella's lego. Ah Yi said you're such a good boy for not destroying the legos unlike their neighbour's kids. You sulked a couple of times by going into the room by yourself and mumbling away saying nobody wants to play with you. Everybody thought you're very funny. The other day I remembered something about you on the day you're born but I'm not sure if I've written it down before. So I'm going to write it in here incase I forgot. The day doc took you out from my stomach, I thought your cry was very loud. I told myself "That's really the difference between a baby boy and a baby girl huh". As I remembered, jie jie's cry was as soft as a kitten, so gentle. Your cry was like "I'm here! I'm a boy! GRRR!!!". Then nurse put your nose to my nose but upside down. I could smell you. I couldn't believe I finally see you. I didn't get to see you every month during the check up because you turned your head away. Later at night, everyone came to visit. I was holding you. Granny and Sin Yee ah yi were standing on my left. When they talked, your head turn to them and your eyes moved. It was like you recognise their voices. I didn't notice you do that when others were nearby. It happened few times. I thought you're very clever. When you were few months old, whenever we go to your baby cot to see you, you sure burst out laughing as if you had had a shock. Haha!! You love to watch TV, looking at your jie jie and chew your fingers. Your mittens were always wet and needed change few times a day.

2 years & 9 months - cutest conversation we ever had

One morning, I think it was 3rd May (Saturday), you were on the toilet bowl & I was holding you while you do your big business, you asked me why do you have a mouth. So I answered "So you could eat & talk" & you nodded your head. Then on the same day, in the afternoon, you did your second big business & I held you again. This time, you asked, why do you have 2 eyes. So I said with eyes we can see things & people to avoid bumping into them. Later in the evening, we were at the cinema watching Spiderman, you suddenly turned around and asked me why do you have a nose. Hahaha!! So I said "so you can smell things. If it's da bien (poo poo) then you know you can't eat it". Then you continue watching Spiderman. A while later you turned to me & said "So I can smell da bien & I don't eat da bien, I eat apple?" Hahahaha!!! I didn't expect you to say the last part. Half way of the movie, you turned around & told me "When I'm big, I become Spiderman. I have Spiderman clothes already mummy. You don't need to give me Spiderman clothes already". There was 1 time where you asked me something about the air filter. You didn't quite know how to put the question but you used your hands and fingers while asking. So I guessed you were trying to asked how does the air filter work. I think you're amazing to asked such questions at such young age. Every night before you sleep, you have so many things to talk. There was 1 time, you told me, at Vital Years, Eu Enn snatched your ice cream stick. I asked "Then what do you do"? You said "Then I cry...WHEHHH!!!!! Then teacher angry Eu Enn. Every night, Mummy tried to stick to the routine i.e. going upstairs to our room at 9.30pm. Then jie jie & you would get changed & brush your teeth. If we have a bit of time, we will read some story books. Otherwise, mummy would tell 1-3 stories before forcing you to sleep. Jie jie usually falls asleep very quickly after the last story & you'll be yacking away disturbing jie jie & get scolded for that. You have amazing imaginations. You could sit still in the car on our way to Heguru while eating your apples. Usually Mummy slice an apple & put them in a container for you. You love popsicles. Mummy usually make Ribena flavoured popsicle. Besides that, you love raisin, seaweed, Chipsmore cookies & sweets too. However, you seldom get to eat sweets because I'm afraid you'll have cavity. You're very adventurous in food. The other day was your first time tasting dhal with roti canai. You love it! You tasted spicy sambal too & you stuck your tongue out & used your hand to rub it. Hahaha!!!

2 years & 8 months old - Started Heguru again

Time flies & when I finally have time to update this blog, I realised that I haven't been updating it for almost 6 months. I'm sorry. Mummy have had a rough time during the last 6 months at work & at home. After waiting for few months in Heguru's waiting list, I decided to call up to check when would be your turn. Luckily, there's a new class for toddler. So I didn't want to wait any longer & signed you up for the toddlers class, conducted by a new teacher. You didn't cry during your first class. In fact, you did quite well. You manage to guess most of the questions correctly. Granny hasn't been well since March. She had slip disc on her back spine & bone spur. She has been resting at Magdelene's house because there, she doesn't need to climb stairs to get to her room. Doctor said she needs to limit her walking & sitting until the inflammation on her spine subsided. Hence, we sent you & Kakak Darniyah to da gu's house. You started going to bao bei since January 2014. You never cry when you go Bao Bei everyday except the first day. Even now that Sue Lynn didn't go with you anymore because she has gone to Phoenix, you are still so steady and you don't cry at all. Nai nai is very amazed by your readiness for all these classes. You are very into Iron Man, Captain America, Incredible Hulk & Spiderman. You always go "bish bish bish" here & there. You are very good at making big guns & small guns from Lassy set that daddy bought at RM500+, even jie jie loves playing with it. On most days when ah yi comes to our house, you would say "Go away ah yi, don't come to my house". Hmmm...I wonder when you'll grow out of this behaviour. Of course, I wouldn't let you get away with that. Usually, you would end up appologising to ah yi. It is not just towards ah yi you misbehave, you also say that to Magdelene sometimes. Hmm..Mommy is quite sad actually. You always say "Mommy I want go shopping, I don't want to go home" or "I want to play, play, play & play, I don't want to sleep". It is like you seldom go out. Mommy admit that we seldom go out compared to when mommy had jie jie only last time. "Your smile can make everyone fall in love with you", that's what granny says all the time. She always say you have lots of light dimples on your face when you smile. Seriously, I can't really tell. Granny loves you very much. She always laughs whenever we talk about you or whenever she thinks about you. Same goes to mommy, daddy & all your ah yi. We will smile when we think about you. You're just too funny. How funny? Yes, you get angry easily but can be distracted easily. We love your smile because you look so charming when you smile & that smile can break a million hearts. Mommy love to kiss you so much. Sometimes you'd go "Hey"..but then I'd make it into a game whereby I kissed you, you need to say "hey" & I asked you "Mommy cannot kiss you?" & then you'd laugh. You're good at saying thank you. That's something I'm very impressed & hope you'll continue to be so polite when you grow up. You cannot speak proper mandarin. You say teacher in mandarin as "Lao Sir" instead of lao sze. Lately you learn a chinese poem & you really sound so cute. It is like a foreigner speaking mandarin. Sometimes you're so bad you hit jie jie so hard & always snatch things from her until she's so heart broken & cried so badly. I hope you'll grow out of this soon. Whenever this happens, mommy would offer you another toy or ask you to wait for your turn. Offering another toy to you is a better option most of the time. You never cry anymore when you go for a hair cut. Mommy is so proud of you. You are very observant. You notice the air purifier in the lift at Midvalley. You are also very inquisitive. You'll ask what did I talk about when I talk to someone. You always ask what is the name of the shopping mall we go to. You can sit quietly in the car eating apple while I drive. You also like to eat. You've tried spicy fried chicken from McDonal today. It's too spicy for you even you took just a tiny bit. You used your fingers & rubbed your toungue. Haha!!